Check the model
Best when the first step should stay public.
StayHello is designed for local connection, readable boundaries, and trust context before anyone treats an overnight stay like the opening move.
Best when
Coffee, a walk, dinner, day-hosting, or a connector intro can be a smaller first step before a stay gets discussed.
Use something else when
You mainly need work exchange, house sitting, home swap, or a broad directory rather than a meet-first path.
What actually changes
Meet in public first, keep boundaries visible, and let references stay tied to the selected eligible context instead of flattening every reference into the same signal.
